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Islami.Mu'mina
How are you supposed to cope with it?
I thought of this yesterday.If i make it to jannah would my family members and cousins now i am in jannah while they are in jahannam,would they know i was the rightly guided.Well we would cope with it just fine.There is no sadness or worry in jannah.Its a state of constant happiness.
And they will say, “Praise be to Allah, Who has kept away from us all ˹causes of˺ sorrow. Our Lord is indeed All-Forgiving, Most Appreciative. 35:34
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Islami.Mu'mina
but that doesn't erase the fact that you'll completely forget about someone who you extremely loved and wanted to spend time with in jannah???
no they wont forget.I knew a hadith in my language so i cant find in english but that people who were in jannah would gather and they would remember their friends,and theyd ask Allah that our friend so and so was praying with us and fasting with us,yet we dont see him in jannah,so Allah tells them he is in jahannam so go get him.Thats another beautiful hadith that shows us the benefits of being good and having impact on peoples lives btw.They will remember you.And another where the people in jannah would gather and talk and remember the life of this world and what happened here and laugh at their hardships. Or this hadith:
It has been narrated on the authority of Abu Huraira that the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said: God laughs at the two men both of whom will enter Paradise (though) one of them kills the other. They said: Messenger of Allah, how is it? He said: One of them fights in the way of Allah, the Almighty and Exalted. and dies a martyr. Then God turns in mercy to the murderer who embraces Islam, fights in the way of Allah, the Almighty and Exalted, and dies a martyr. (Book #020, Hadith #4658)
So that means not only they will remember,but their feelings would change so much so that theyd even forgive and love their killer.You wont be that much of a different person you will just be happy and will not have shaytan to whisper you and push you to do haram.You would just be happy and full of iman.State of bliss as they say.I know its hard to swallow but its jannah.I mean even black holes are hard to swallow,space and time wrap,theory of strings etc,whatever out of our norm is hard to swallow for us but rest assure its true