Peace be with you Flos,
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Flos
There're 3 disbelievers who did something to me and I thought I don't have to forgive them as they are not believers
I have come to learn that when I forgive someone, it is more for my benefit; rather than for theirs.
If you forgive them, what will it do for them?
If you can't forgive them, what will this do to you? You will carry thoughts of anger every time you think of them, you will find no peace. You cannot enjoy being the kind and caring person you want to be, because you will be living with anger and resentment. Life is not fair, only Allah can give true justice.
When you can feel that you have truly forgiven someone, and you hold nothing against them anymore, it can feel like a huge burden has been taken away from you.
May Allah bless you as you journey through Ramadan.
Eric