The Musim Youth at College

[nafy]

aslamualaikum sistas n brovas...
i jus recently started goin 2 college.....afta persuading my parents soooooooooooooooo much!!! but now i understand y they werent too fond of me goin 2 college.....
its becuz the muslim youth der have seriously strayed from der religion.....and my parents didnt want me 2 go n act da same.....u know start smoking...goin out wit guys n all dat....but alhumdulilah....Allah has given me enuf understanding dat i can differenciate between wat is rite and rong....
2 tell ya da truth it reallllllllly upsets me 2 c da muslim youth at my college actin up....and not paying the least bit of attention 2 der deen..... :(
im not a 100% perfect muslimah......but i try my hardest 2 be a gud muslim inshallah.....
das y 1 of da most things i ask Allah in my dua's is that this ramadan....these young muslims will becum stronger in faith....
plz make dua aswell!!!!!! thnx :)

[TEH]

Insha Allah I hope they change, you know, most colleges have an ISOC, does yours??

:)

[nafy]

i dont even know what that is lol
so nah i dont think my college dus have 1...........wateva it is hehehe lol

[TEH]

:D

An Islamic Society... (ISoc)

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[F.Y.]

yeh, befreind these guys, say salam, hello, whatever. Invite them to eat at your house. ask em to come with you to pray salaat or something at college. Most colleges/uni's have prayer facilities available. Try finding one on campus. If not - you have a new goal - you can set one up! Hope it works out for you.

[nafy]

Thnks 4 lettin me know lol
nah we dont ave 1 of those............its a crappy college lolz

[Ameeratul Layl]

:sl: sis,

I know how you feel. I too am far from perfect and I too carry out mistakes but I do not go as far as some of the Muslims in my college.
I can HONESTLY say that I am the only ONE who wears the Jilabiyah and Hijab. The other girls wear tight clothes, no hijab, talk to guys-NO....they FLIRT and get quite close to them....last but not least.....they SMOKE! :confused:
i go to a college wher 99% of the ppl are English. Or should I say....racist.
But I'' tell you what keeps me going.....

My aims in life (becoming a gynocologist, scientist or a women and kid's dentist).
My love for Allah (praying 5 times a day and listening to Tilawah whilst doing my work).

And....just remembering that if I do anything wrong. Allah will never help me in life and will probably not love me anymore. :)

Just keep your chin up sister. Keep in mind that you are on the Right Path and if you do good via your actions....others will follow..InshAllah. :)

If you feel sad. I'm here for you to talk to. If you are depressed, I'm here to cry with you.
Cheer up, sis. ;)

m3 salaam :wilted_ro

[TEH]

yeh, befreind these guys, say salam, hello, whatever. Invite them to eat at your house. ask em to come with you to pray salaat or something at college. Most colleges/uni's have prayer facilities available. Try finding one on campus. If not - you have a new goal - you can set one up! Hope it works out for you.

I think thats a bad idea, stay away from guys, go see the sisters first, and then approach the guys...

:D

[F.Y.]

I didnt mean 'guys' as in 'guys'. I thought 'guys' was a colloqiual term.

[nafy]

yeh, befreind these guys, say salam, hello, whatever. Invite them to eat at your house. ask em to come with you to pray salaat or something at college. Most colleges/uni's have prayer facilities available. Try finding one on campus. If not - you have a new goal - you can set one up! Hope it works out for you.

thnks 4 da advice sis........
thing is am abit of a shy gal lolz.........i wud say salam 2 da gals....
but they wud most likely giv me dirty luks.....i get weird luks n e way becus i wear da hijab along wid about 3 other gals in da whole college!!
and am not goin 2 say hi 2 n e guys..........der 2 corrupt.....i'll be der saying salaam 2 dem considerin dem as brothers n der'll be thinking sumfin quite different!!
we dont have a prayer thingy......i usually read at home b4 i go 2 college...n wen i get bac.......
but das a gud idea.........thnx..........i'll c wat i can do!! :)

[nafy]

:sl: sis,

I know how you feel. I too am far from perfect and I too carry out mistakes but I do not go as far as some of the Muslims in my college.
I can HONESTLY say that I am the only ONE who wears the Jilabiyah and Hijab. The other girls wear tight clothes, no hijab, talk to guys-NO....they FLIRT and get quite close to them....last but not least.....they SMOKE! :confused:
i go to a college wher 99% of the ppl are English. Or should I say....racist.
But I'' tell you what keeps me going.....

My aims in life (becoming a gynocologist, scientist or a women and kid's dentist).
My love for Allah (praying 5 times a day and listening to Tilawah whilst doing my work).

And....just remembering that if I do anything wrong. Allah will never help me in life and will probably not love me anymore. :)

Just keep your chin up sister. Keep in mind that you are on the Right Path and if you do good via your actions....others will follow..InshAllah. :)

If you feel sad. I'm here for you to talk to. If you are depressed, I'm here to cry with you.
Cheer up, sis. ;)

m3 salaam :wilted_ro

thnx sis!!!!!!!!!!
das incredibley nyc!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

[TEH]

I didnt mean 'guys' as in 'guys'. I thought 'guys' was a colloqiual term.

woopsy daisies, my bad...

And yeah, go and say salaam to those three girls, think big, imagine, you could potentially start the islamic society in your college...

:p

[nafy]

lol.............those gals are my close friends.......so i chat 2 em n e wayz.....
yeh thnx 4 da advice bro...... :)

[Ameeratul Layl]

thnx sis!!!!!!!!!!
das incredibley nyc!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

:sl:
Anytime ;)

m3 salaam
:wilted_ro

[Protected_Diamond]

:sl:

I understand what you saying beacuse i feel the same, well its quite the opposite for me i don't want to carry on with my studies but ma dad's encouraging me to go further on in life...anywhere youngsters nawadays juss wana blend in with the crowd...its really hard 4 dem 2 do good deeds once you've been led astray...im not stiking up 4 dem on anyfin...o well lets leave Allah s.w.a 2 judge us and guide us 2 the right path ameen! :)

[nafy]

yea sis ur rite.........
but ur dads rite..........u need 2 go further in lyf.......
dont worri..........wid Allahs guidance we will stay on the right path throughout....
and inshallah Allah will guide those hu are goin astray.... ameen

[Z]

Peace

What is wrong with a woman smoking? (In Sharia.)

[Ameeratul Layl]

Peace

What is wrong with a woman smoking? (In Sharia.)

:sl:

It looks sick and revolting. I personally think its very unlady like. :)
In shariah, well, I presume its the same as the man (men and women ahve equal rights in Islam, remember).
Though, the subject of 'smoking' varies within scholars. I personally would not recommend it.

m3 salaam :wilted_ro

[Z]

I see. I was wondering whether you was trying to say it is Haraam for a woman to smoke.

I wouldn't want my partner to be a smoker, but I think women who smoke look cool.

[Ameeratul Layl]

I see. I was wondering whether you was trying to say it is Haraam for a woman to smoke.

I wouldn't want my partner to be a smoker, but I think women who smoke look cool.

:sl:
Cool? You dont know wat cool is.
A woman smoking looks sick..... :confused: :confused: :confused:

m3 salaam
:wilted_ro

[Z]

I'm sorry but my interpretation of what cool is may be complete different from yours. But that doesn't go to say that I don't know what cool is.

[Ameeratul Layl]

I'm sorry but my interpretation of what cool is may be complete different from yours. But that doesn't go to say that I don't know what cool is.

:sl:
Yeah yeah, okay.
mmmmm.......good point.
Sorry about what I sed. Its just as a woman.....I persoanlly dont think other woemn that I see look cool smoking. They STINK, is one thing that really annoys me.
:) Oh well, whats ur opinion is yours and wats mine is mine :)

May Allah Guide Us All, to The Path Of Siratim Mustaqeem.Ammen.

m3 salaam :wilted_ro

[Protected_Diamond]

^^ameen sis :)

[Ameeratul Layl]

^^ameen sis :)

:sl: :D :D :D :D

[Protected_Diamond]

:sl: :D :D :D :D

:w: lol..how ya doing? :sister: u okay? juss came bak 4rom college, well town really and saw a few of ma mates...well so called mates hehe :p

[Ameeratul Layl]

:w: lol..how ya doing? :sister: u okay? juss came bak 4rom college, well town really and saw a few of ma mates...well so called mates hehe :p

:sl:

I am still in college. Tying up my experiment work that I did in biology today. :-[

;)
Will be online for quite a while so we can talk if you want. I need abit of company ;D

m3 salaam

[Protected_Diamond]

:sl:

I am still in college. Tying up my experiment work that I did in biology today. :-[

;)
Will be online for quite a while so we can talk if you want. I need abit of company ;D

m3 salaam

*hides* lol...only jokin yeah sure sis y not? haha u in college lol...sorry im being a bit stupid ere anyways ermm whta u studying? me is studying law.psycology and sociology :thumbs_up

[Ameeratul Layl]

*hides* lol...only jokin yeah sure sis y not? haha u in college lol...sorry im being a bit stupid ere anyways ermm whta u studying? me is studying law.psycology and sociology :thumbs_up

:sl:

I'm studying: Biology, chemistry, physic and mathematics.

Well, my mom has just phoned so, if at ANY point I dont reply...it bcuz I'm gone! (u neva know, I'll probably be on my way to find you..ha ha ha)

yeah wateve.
I've got beta things to do ;D ;D

[Protected_Diamond]

intrestingly the azaan has juss said so im going off naw 2 lol...Allah hafiz copycat :)

[Rabi'ya]

:sl: sis,

I know how you feel. I too am far from perfect and I too carry out mistakes but I do not go as far as some of the Muslims in my college.
I can HONESTLY say that I am the only ONE who wears the Jilabiyah and Hijab. The other girls wear tight clothes, no hijab, talk to guys-NO....they FLIRT and get quite close to them....last but not least.....they SMOKE! :confused:
i go to a college wher 99% of the ppl are English. Or should I say....racist.
But I'' tell you what keeps me going.....

My aims in life (becoming a gynocologist, scientist or a women and kid's dentist).
My love for Allah (praying 5 times a day and listening to Tilawah whilst doing my work).

And....just remembering that if I do anything wrong. Allah will never help me in life and will probably not love me anymore. :)

Just keep your chin up sister. Keep in mind that you are on the Right Path and if you do good via your actions....others will follow..InshAllah. :)

If you feel sad. I'm here for you to talk to. If you are depressed, I'm here to cry with you.
Cheer up, sis. ;)

m3 salaam :wilted_ro

:sl: sister

I can fully empathise with you. I totally understand. I am in the exact same position. The other day I conducted a little sly experiment. I know for a fact I am the only Muslimah in my college and I suspected,even out of all the male international students(who appear to be Muslim) that I was the only one who was using the prayer room regularly.

Last Thursday I took the three prayer mats from the prayer room as they were in desperate need of a wash and left my new one there for use by anyone who wanted to pray. On Friday morning (quite early) I went back to put the three prayer mats back in the room. I also left mine there - the brand new one - at the bottom of the pile. Today is not Monday evening and I just went to pray and when I got there not even one of the prayer mats had been moved. They were in the exact same place as I had left them on Friday morning.
This has shocked me somewhat but then on another note I say alhamdulillah that noone stole my brand new prayer mat.

May Allah guide them ......ameen

:w:

Rabi'ya:rose:

[Ameeratul Layl]

intrestingly the azaan has juss said so im going off naw 2 lol...Allah hafiz copycat :)

salaam.
Ill sort you out 2morrow.InshAllahhhhhhh! ;D

[nafy]

Yea sis Rabi'ya i get wat ur saying!!!
das y i feel its really important 4 us 2 mek dua.........n inshallah da muslim youth....
will recieve guidance by Allah (swt) :)

[Protected_Diamond]

salaam.
Ill sort you out 2morrow.InshAllahhhhhhh! ;D

im bakkk :p is dat gud news or bad? hehe

[Rabi'ya]

Yea sis Rabi'ya i get wat ur saying!!!
das y i feel its really important 4 us 2 mek dua.........n inshallah da muslim youth....
will recieve guidance by Allah (swt) :)

:sl:

inshaAllah may Allah guide them....ameen

:w:

Rabi'ya:rose:

[nafy]

ameen :)