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    Assalam Wa Alaikum

    A christian man to marry a muslim woman, converted to Islam. Over the years he did not let go of his christian behaviour, besides giving up going to church. For example at the time of eating, instead of saying Bismillah, he does the christian way of prayer. And lately posting in a social site, praying and addressing it to "Lord Jesus Christ" and "Thank you Lord Jesus Christ". Posting pictures with text Son Of God. Numerous posts like that. In all these years he hasnt shown any signs of being a muslim. Now how can the wife confront him, because when she asks him , he can just say its out of habit or something. How can it be ascertained that he gave false Shahadah just to get married but in his heart and mind he had no intentions of converting. How can it be proven? And once it is, what is the status of the marriage?

    Jazzak Allah Khair

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    Re: False Shahadah to get married

    Welcome to the forum.

    Can't advise on the above. Obviously he is not a true muslim from what is described above. What it means for the marriage, I'm in no position to say.

    However, I can wish you a great stay.


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    Re: False Shahadah to get married

    format_quote Originally Posted by greenhill View Post
    Welcome to the forum.

    Can't advise on the above. Obviously he is not a true muslim from what is described above. What it means for the marriage, I'm in no position to say.

    However, I can wish you a great stay.


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    Re: False Shahadah to get married

    i think the muslim woman sh'd just confront the guys, if he insists on christianity then let her follow the rules of Islam but not love

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    Re: False Shahadah to get married

    But we can´t know was his shahada false at the time when he said it. He is a Muslim if he says so. Claiming otherwise doesn´t belong to us. His wife should ask what he really believes from him and if he says to be Muslim and nothing more, who then could say he isn´t Muslim?

    As we haven´t any more information about this person than only what we can read from the first post (and we can´t know what he has in his heart), it would be better not to speculate about such thing.
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    Re: False Shahadah to get married

    format_quote Originally Posted by sister herb View Post
    But we can´t know was his shahada false at the time when he said it. He is a Muslim if he says so. Claiming otherwise doesn´t belong to us. His wife should ask what he really believes from him and if he says to be Muslim and nothing more, who then could say he isn´t Muslim?

    As we haven´t any more information about this person than only what we can read from the first post (and we can´t know what he has in his heart), it would be better not to speculate about such thing.
    Jazzak Allah Khair Sister

    You are absolutely correct, Allah knows what is in the heart. But actions also show what is in the heart. In this case the said person actions are showing whats in his heart. After shahadah still praying and thanking "Lord Jesus Christ" and when asked about it, says that how I pray. Isnt that totally going against Tawheed, which is part of the Shahadah? I know this is a very complicated issue, but more input about it would be very helpful

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    Re: False Shahadah to get married

    Make istikhara.

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    it's a very sensitive issue . Better is she talks to a Mufti .
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    Christ will never be proud to reject to be a slave to God .....holy Quran, chapter Women , 4: 172

    recitation:http://quran.jalisi.com

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    False Shahadah to get married

    Christ will never be proud to reject to be a slave to God .....holy Quran, chapter Women , 4: 172

    recitation:http://quran.jalisi.com


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