It is no easy,since the indian muslims want to merry indians,pakistanies-wife from Pakistan,same with others....exept some arabs,whish desires only a beuty from Europe or America:no problem if doesn't were higaab,no problem if doesn't pray... Islam for them is something they've got from mom and dad aa a tradition....
So how new muslima without family and muslim relatives can get married?
I know an easy way ,it is a recommendation of Rasoolullah (S.A.W) the raawi is Hz.Ali (R.A.) .Read Soora-i Yaseen. My sister was 35 year old and she readed 40 times and in a few month be-iznillah she married.(Ve Huve ala kulli shay in Kaadir)
^ What is the signifigance of reading it four times? Is there a narration for this?
This tip gave me an Ahlullah,a fiend of my wife didnt became since 8 years baby and she read 40 times yaseen and be-iznillah she became a baby and now is the baby 3 year old.
Lots of interesting, practical tips here, but don't forget the most powerful tool: prayer. Nothing will happen without Allah's permission, and it will happen a lot quicker if you seek guidance and sincere direction.
Yes,surah Yaseen is recomended as a cure in the sufism
i write above "it is a recommendation of Rasoolullah (S.A.W) the raawi is Hz.Ali (R.A.) " its a long Hadees about soora-i yaseen.research and see!
We just trust and do what Rasoolullah(SAW) say and we wait from Allah-u Taala. Ghafir:60. And your Lord says: "Call on Me; I will answer your (Prayer)-Udooni astajiblekum
Yes,surah Yaseen is recomended as a cure in the sufism
There is no evidence from sunnah that reading yassin ,with specific number will achieve the purpose .PLS follow the prophet tradition to be on the safe shore.
Praise be to Allaah.
We do not think it is permissible to single out certain verses of the Qur’aan to recite for specific purposes, unless there is specific shar’i evidence to that effect, such as if there is a saheeh hadeeth from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) concerning the virtues of a certain soorah, which the Muslim may recite with the aim of attaining those virtues and benefits.
But if a person selects for himself various verses of Qur’aan to recite, and claims that they may bring relief from hardship or help at times of crisis, and he compiles them in a book to be recited regularly by the Muslim as part of a recommended wird, then that is more akin to innovation (bid’ah) than following the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). It is better for the Muslim to avoid that and not follow this example or act upon it.
The entire Qur’aan is blessing and reward and goodness, but claiming that a certain verse has a certain effect, especially in the case of these claims that they can relieve difficulty and financial hardships, is something that requires evidence, and the author of this book has no evidence for the things he says, so attention must be paid to that.
The Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas was asked:
In Uganda, if a person wants to call upon his Lord – du’aa’ – especially for increased provision, he summons some of the learned and they come to him, each of them bringing his Mus-haf, and they start to read. One will read Soorat Yaa-Seen because it is the heart of the Qur’aan, a second will read Soorat al-Kahf, a third will read Soorat al-Waaqi’ah or al-Rahmaan or al-Dukhaan or al-Ma’aarij or Noon or Tabaarak i.e., al-Mulk, Muhammad, al-Fath and other similar soorahs. The next day they do the same thing, and the day after that. But they do not read from al-Baqarah or al-Nisa’. After that they say du’aa’. Is this way prescribed in Islam? If it is not, then what is the prescribed way, with evidence?
They replied:
Reading Qur’aan whilst pondering the meanings is one of the best acts of worship, and calling upon Allaah and turning to Him, asking Him to enable one to do good and to grant abundant provision and other kinds of good things is a kind of worship that is prescribed in Islam.
But reading in the manner described in the question – distributing specific soorahs of the Qur’aan to a number of people, each of whom reads a soorah in order to say du’aa’ after that asking for abundant provision and so on is an innovation (bid’ah), because that is not proven from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in word or in deed, or from any of the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them) or from the imams of the salaf (may Allaah have mercy on them). Goodness is in following those who came before (the salaf) and evil is in the innovations of those who came later. It is proven that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever introduces anything into this matter of ours [Islam] that is not part of it will have it rejected.” Calling upon Allaah in du’aa’ is prescribed at all times and in all places, in all situations, in hardship and ease. What is encouraged by Islam is to say du’aa’ when prostrating during the prayer, just before dawn, and at the end of the prayer before saying the salaam. It is proven that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Our Lord descends to the lowest heaven every night when the last third of the night remains, and says: “Who will call upon Me, that I may answer him; who will ask of Me that I might give him; who will seek My forgiveness that I might forgive him?” Narrated by al-Bukhaari and Muslim.
And it is proven from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “As for rukoo’ (bowing), glorify your Lord therein, and as for sujood (prostration), strive hard in du’aa ‘therein, because then it is more likely that you may receive a response.” Narrated by Ahmad, Muslim, al-Nasaa’i and Abu Dawood.
It was proven from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The closest that a person is to his Lord is when he is prostrating, so say a lot of du’aa’ then.” Narrated by Muslim, Abu Dawood and al-Nasaa’i.
In al-Saheehayn it is narrated from Ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) that when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) taught him the tashahhud, he said to him: “Then let him choose whatever du’aa’ he likes and say it.”
And Allaah is the Source of strength. End quote.
Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (2/486)
On our website, in the answer to question no. 71183, we have mentioned some of the du’aa’s that are prescribed in Islam for seeking help to pay off debts, which are proven from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Please read them and make use of them.
BTW In my country couple of Islamic organizations work in this
they find converts and they try to full fill there needs (ie, merrage food, etc..)
many muslims in my country help this kind of organizations !!
BTW In my country couple of Islamic organizations work in this
they find converts and they try to full fill there needs (ie, merrage food, etc..)
many muslims in my country help this kind of organizations !!
Nothing like that here in the US. Its all about becoming DESI-AMERICANS or ARAB-AMERICANS!!!
from the older sister's or even married brothers to give us some pointers
thts a gud question but wht our prophet told us is to find a wife with islamic knowledge when ladies get more fait in islam then we (insha allah future) husbands can experience peace ful life alhamdulila so how 2 find a wife with gud islamic knowledge !? ~posted via mobile sory 4 speling mistakes~
How do you hunt and where?
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I work with a girl,who want to become a muslim (insha'Allah!),so there is a brother,who wants to get married ,but he said:she must put on nikab!
She did not say the sahahada yet-he wants nikab,how sad is that(she is with abaya and hijab only)!?
No sense,no understanding
This is a topic that troubles many young people. How to find the right spouse? Sometimes a person might be very pious but both of you dont 'click' so it is not always so straightforward.
My sincere advice to brothers aswell as sisters is to make alot of dua, Im sure many of you whilst reading this might be thinking oh dua *rolls eyes* but trust me, try improving yourself as a muslim/muslimah gain knowledge practise on that knowledge and trust me before you know it people will propose left right center.
Do not make marriage your aim in life, turn your back towards it and you will soon see that marriage will come looking for you.
Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah Said
This dunya is like a shadow. If you try to catch it, you will never be able to do so. If you turn your back towards it, it has no choice but to follow you.
I think muslim converted should get married when they feel ready.
I'm in my early 20's and been a convert for 2 years. I'm not looking for a husband yet. I'm still decovering myself. I was engaged to man before I became muslim but that sadly ended when I became muslim as he didn't like it. I don't want to get married till I'm ready. When I'm wanting to get married, I will ask my muslim friends to find a sutable husband for me, as they know me best. My family know me well but they are not muslims.
O Allah, I seek help from you. I seek your forgiveness. I seek your guidance. I believe in you.
I think muslim converted should get married when they feel ready.
I'm in my early 20's and been a convert for 2 years. I'm not looking for a husband yet. I'm still decovering myself. I was engaged to man before I became muslim but that sadly ended when I became muslim as he didn't like it. I don't want to get married till I'm ready. When I'm wanting to get married, I will ask my muslim friends to find a sutable husband for me, as they know me best. My family know me well but they are not muslims.
Salaam. Thats right. take your time. the right person will come inshaAllah. btw, if your family still are not muslims, and you're not have a least idea how to invite them to Islam, just tell them to read this article - http://linuses.blogspot.com - who knows what will happen. they might accept, they might not. at least you did your part in sharing with them the knowledge.
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