Imraan
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Assalam Walaikum
For the first time in my life I have been involved in organising a burial for a relative who has passed away recently. The burial took place today and everything went well today Alhamdulillah.
I did come across a predicament. When organising the burial the funeral director (muslim) offered me various options
a) no lining, insert coffin straight into grave.
b) wooden slat/panel lining, insert coffin into a wooden enclosure.
c) concrete lining, allow to dry and then insert coffin into watertight concrete enclosure (tyhis is specific for potential water logging i think).
d) brick enclosure, allow to dry and then insert coffin into bricked enclosure.
My first and immediate thought was i'm looking for a simple burial, doesn't even need to be decorated, I need the body buried in the cemetery asap so without hesitation i chose option a, no lining. Simply the grave was dug, coffin was inserted and re-filled with the soil. After burial I was somewhat criticized for not choosing the wooden or concrete option and i quote one person said something along the lines of "when they are asked by the angels, they will have no enclosure... what will they do?". Can anyone elaborate on that.
i must say this burial took place in a Pakistani dominated area in the UK and in that specific community they do regularly take up options other than option a)
obviously burials are supposed to be simple, i'm sure they were very simple some 1400 years ago.
"We shall all return to the soil where we were once made from"
Can i have your opinions please and your experiences in your community and recommendations on the best way to approach a burial for next time?.
Jazak Allah Khair.
For the first time in my life I have been involved in organising a burial for a relative who has passed away recently. The burial took place today and everything went well today Alhamdulillah.
I did come across a predicament. When organising the burial the funeral director (muslim) offered me various options
a) no lining, insert coffin straight into grave.
b) wooden slat/panel lining, insert coffin into a wooden enclosure.
c) concrete lining, allow to dry and then insert coffin into watertight concrete enclosure (tyhis is specific for potential water logging i think).
d) brick enclosure, allow to dry and then insert coffin into bricked enclosure.
My first and immediate thought was i'm looking for a simple burial, doesn't even need to be decorated, I need the body buried in the cemetery asap so without hesitation i chose option a, no lining. Simply the grave was dug, coffin was inserted and re-filled with the soil. After burial I was somewhat criticized for not choosing the wooden or concrete option and i quote one person said something along the lines of "when they are asked by the angels, they will have no enclosure... what will they do?". Can anyone elaborate on that.
i must say this burial took place in a Pakistani dominated area in the UK and in that specific community they do regularly take up options other than option a)
obviously burials are supposed to be simple, i'm sure they were very simple some 1400 years ago.
"We shall all return to the soil where we were once made from"
Can i have your opinions please and your experiences in your community and recommendations on the best way to approach a burial for next time?.
Jazak Allah Khair.