Asalamu aleikum brothers and sisters.
I apologize if I spell something wrong, english isnt my first language.
I live with my husband since 2 years and we are expecting our first child any day now. Im 39 weeks pregnant. My husband immigrated many years ago with his 3 brothers to this country. Otherwise they have no more family members here. Our baby is the first baby to be born from his family in this country.
My husbands oldest brother met his current wife 4 months ago. She have 2 young children from her previous marriage. Unfortunatly her kids was taken by the social welfare authorities a couple of months ago because they didnt think she took good care of them. I know that she (and my husbands brother too) is very sad for the lost of the children. I tried my best to support her and be nice to her but unfortunatly we cannot understand each other well, because she only speaks arabic and I dont.
Now I want to tell you about my issue. Since she lost her kids, I could start feeling jealous and kind of evil eyes from her and sometimes also from her husband. I no longer feel that they are happy about our baby. Only jealous and malice masked with faked kindness. I was told since I was a child to be aware and afraid of the evil eye. Never show people your valuables because their jealousy and evil eyes could destroy it. Now Im very worried about my son. I absolutly dont want anyone to give him the evil eye or try to bring him misfornute in any other way. How can I protect him from his uncle and especially his uncles wife if they give him the evil eye? Is the only way to keep him away from them or is there any other way?
I also want to say that my husband agree with me about this. He can also tell that they are jealous and not genuine happy for our baby but he have no idea what to do in this situation. He dont want to cause a bad relation between him and his brother so he just try to pretend like nothing and be kind.
Thank you all for reading this and I hope that someone can answer me.
I apologize if I spell something wrong, english isnt my first language.
I live with my husband since 2 years and we are expecting our first child any day now. Im 39 weeks pregnant. My husband immigrated many years ago with his 3 brothers to this country. Otherwise they have no more family members here. Our baby is the first baby to be born from his family in this country.
My husbands oldest brother met his current wife 4 months ago. She have 2 young children from her previous marriage. Unfortunatly her kids was taken by the social welfare authorities a couple of months ago because they didnt think she took good care of them. I know that she (and my husbands brother too) is very sad for the lost of the children. I tried my best to support her and be nice to her but unfortunatly we cannot understand each other well, because she only speaks arabic and I dont.
Now I want to tell you about my issue. Since she lost her kids, I could start feeling jealous and kind of evil eyes from her and sometimes also from her husband. I no longer feel that they are happy about our baby. Only jealous and malice masked with faked kindness. I was told since I was a child to be aware and afraid of the evil eye. Never show people your valuables because their jealousy and evil eyes could destroy it. Now Im very worried about my son. I absolutly dont want anyone to give him the evil eye or try to bring him misfornute in any other way. How can I protect him from his uncle and especially his uncles wife if they give him the evil eye? Is the only way to keep him away from them or is there any other way?
I also want to say that my husband agree with me about this. He can also tell that they are jealous and not genuine happy for our baby but he have no idea what to do in this situation. He dont want to cause a bad relation between him and his brother so he just try to pretend like nothing and be kind.
Thank you all for reading this and I hope that someone can answer me.